Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Tuesday Tunes

This is probably my favorite or second favorite Christmas song ever!!! As a mom it really hits home, especially now that I'm pregnant again! I love the thoughts in it and it's beautiful to listen to as well!

Joseph's Lullaby
~ Mercy Me

Go to sleep my Son

This manger for your bed
You have a long road before You
Rest Your little head

Can You feel the weight of Your glory?
Do You understand the price?
Or does the Father guard
Your heart for now
So You can sleep tonight?

Go to sleep my Son
Go and chase Your dreams
This world can wait for one more moment
Go and sleep in peace

I believe the glory of Heaven
Is lying in my arms tonight
But Lord, I ask that He
for just this moment
Simply be my child

Go to sleep my Son
Baby, close Your eyes
Soon enough You'll save the day
But for now, dear Child of mine

Oh my Jesus, Sleep tight

Week 9

The other morning when I was making Bob's sandwich the smell of the cheese and deli meat made me gag...

I have constant nausea from the time I wake up till about 5 in the evening, and the only things that sound even remotely tasty are fast food and BLTs

I've been sleeping in till past 10 most days and still am tired all day and exhausted by 10 at night and ready for bed

I keep knocking stuff over, dropping stuff, and tripping over my own feet.

I can't remember anything and get confused easily.

Ah yes....it's all coming back to me now, this is what being pregnant is all about!

Except for this time around I have a toddler to take care of on top of everything!

Thankfully she's a doll who sleeps in and is pretty low maintenance and manages to keep herself occupied easily...and surely it won't damage her forever if she watches Sesame Street and Barney while I curl up on the couch right?!

I told Amber the day after we found out. She's still too little to really "get" it so I wanted to have her be one of the first people to know. :) I asked her if she wanted a baby brother or sister and she said yes.(She adores babies!) Then I told her mommy has a baby in my belly and she lifted up her shirt and looked at her belly, then came over and lifted up my shirt and looked at my belly, looked confused then laughed and said "tickle tickle" while she tickled my belly then she went back to playing, LOL!!!

Hubbies been a huge help so far too, swept and mopped the kitchen for company and made me a BLT last night after I couldn't choke down the enchiladas I cooked. Even looking at all the Holiday goodies on tv makes me want to gag....I made fudge and could only eat a few pieces....seriously bummed about that!

Today was my first  human pin-cushion Dr's appointment. If there is one thing I hate more than anything in the whole world, it's getting my blood drawn. Had a few traumatic experiences as a kid and now it completely freaks me out! Shots and IVs are bad too, but that's the worst! Of course, that's a big part of pregnancy, goody goody. Today lived up to my fears, they had to take like 8 vials and when they finished the room started spinning, my vision flickered and I broke out in a cold sweat, what fun!!! About 10 minutes of sitting still later I was able to stand up at least.

On a happy note my blood pressure is good, I'm starting out this pregnancy 12 lbs lighter than last pregnancy (woot!) and the next time I go I'll get tiny bean baby pictures! Also I keep reading that women who experience throwing up are far less likely to have a miscarriage, so at least I know all is well with baby :)

Right now the little bugger that's make me so sick is the size of a grape and the internal organs are all already there, how amazing is that?!

Stay tuned as, just like my friend Paulina does on her blog, I plan on sharing it all with you...the good, the bad, and the ugly :)

Monday, December 7, 2009

Kreativ Blogger




Sarah from over at Caiafa Craziness has given me the Kreativ Blogger award. Thanks so much sweets :D Her blog is wonderful, go give her some love!


The Rules:

Share 7 things that you don't already know about me.

Name 7 other blogs to receive this award.

Leave a comment on each of the blogs I nominated.

Thank the person who gave you the award.

The Seven Things:

1. I used to call the Pentagon on a daily basis during my job in DC. It always made me feel important! :)

2. The best job I ever had was being the only girl working in a ELDM plant lab at a Trona Mine.
3. I think white cars are ugly

4. I don't like bananas, pop tarts, or cake

5. I'm probably the fastest reader I know, but when I read I do it weird, my eyes jump all over the pages and then I come back through and read what I missed. I have great reading comprehension but since I read like that I can re-read books over and over and always find something I missed the first time. I have no clue why I do that.


6. Hubby calls me a zillion different nicknames per day, and most I would never repeat! LoL.
 
And now the big one....

7.  I'm pregnant!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! How surprised are you?! Hopefully surprised because I sure was! I found out last week because I got so sick. I'm 8 weeks along, my due date is July 14th (which is awesome because my birthday is July 12th and my little sister's is the 13th.) I'm still not feeling well at all, super nauseous! So that's why I haven't been keeping up as well with blogging, and why there's no Rich Girl lip syncing yet, I was actually going to announce it on my video, but as I'm so sick I thought it would be better to get out in the open why it's taking me so long. :) I am going to try to do that this week though!



Now, the seven blogs:


Elle Squared ~ Amazing Blog and she also just found out she's expecting!!! She truly is a Kreativ Blogger!

Every Day Mom Ideas ~ Free digi kits and giveaways, need I say more?!

Really Working From Home ~ Just won a bottle of perfume from them and of course I love this blog!

The Bundy's ~ I had so much fun getting to know Valerie better through my Scentsy Giveaway and her boys are darling!

Mommy Perks VIP blog ~ Such a great site and blog! Shara's a wonderful writer!

Morning Cup With Meg ~ She's such a sweetie and her new layout is stunning!

Blissful Bee Boutique ~ Because she's a sweetie and runs some awesome giveaway

i heart faces ~ Sweet Dreams

 



This week's theme at i faces is Sweet Dreams. Of course I had to go back and find a sweet newborn picture of Amber :) This is from the photo shoot I tried to do for her first Easter. She screamed bloody murder the whole time so I resorted to popping in her paci. She immediately fell asleep, lol. :) It's hard to believe my busy little toddler was this sweet sleepy baby!

 
For other Sweet Dreams hop on over and look at the other entries!

Sunday, December 6, 2009

Created to Be His Help Meet ~ Chapter 4



A few months after we moved to NC we went out to dinner with one of Bob's single co-workers. We'd been hanging out with him a lot and he mentioned that we seemed to have a really great relationship, then asked us both what the key to that is.

My answer was easy. "We're best friends" I told him.

If you've been married awhile then you know that there will be times when your spouse (and let's be honest, you) won't look very good, won't feel very good, won't act very good. But you can cope with all of that if underneath everything else you're playmates and buddies. If you're used to laughing and having fun together, coping with the hard times that come is much easier!

Bob and I love hanging out with each other, love having fun together. You can keep this vital connection even when you have kids, and even if you can't manage "date nights". Bob and I have had just one date night since Amber was born! But I make sure she has an early bedtime so we get that vital reconnecting time. We laugh hysterically to The Office, veg out on our laptops, or just joke around.

Another relationship book that I'm currently reading so I can do a review for Thomas Nelson keeps talking about how important it is for guys to get "shoulder-to-shoulder" time in with their wives. Time where their wife just hangs out with them, doing whatever it is they like to do, without having to talk a lot, or at least not about anything deep. It's as important to them as talking with them is to us.

So who's your best friend? If you wouldn't have immediately listed your hubby first, maybe it's time to re-prioritize that list!

Aveeno Baby BuzzAgent Review and Free Samples

Not to long ago I signed up to be a BuzzAgent. It's an awesome program where you can sign up for campaigns and they will send you products and samples and coupons to give away...all you have to do is spread the Buzz :)



I love Aveeno Baby! Their extreme moisturizing lotion is what I use several times a day to keep Amber's eczema from coming back. It's wonderful! So I was so super excited to get to try out their new Essential Moisture Shampoo and Soothing Relief Diaper Rash Cream.

I love Aveeno because my pediatrician actually recommended it, and I know when I use their stuff I can be confident that it won't make Amber's super sensitive skin break out.

I was so impressed with the shampoo! Amber has quite a bit of hair now and it gets tangled. The shampoo has a light moisturizer in it that made it so much easier to comb through her hair, lots less ouches!!!

I did like the diaper rash cream as well, but found it rather thick and a little difficult to spread. It did a good job of clearing up her irritation though.

I still have a bundle of freebies to giveaway and would love to send one to you! They were sweet enough to send me samples of shampoo, diaper rash cream, and $1 off any product coupons! If you'd like for me to send you one just leave a comment saying which one thing you'd like and then email me your address at da_angel_321@yahoo.com  it will be on a first come, first serve basis so hurry!

Interview with Chandra of Scribendi

Thanks to Twitter Mom's I recently got the chance to interview Chandra Clarke who is the founder, co-owner and President of Scribendi. It's an online English-language editing and proofreading company. If you'd like more information you can check them out here. You can also follow them on Twitter and check out Chandra's humor blog as well.

As a small business owner of Artistic Albums By Nicole it was wonderful to get to "pick the brain" of someone who's been there-done that before. I thought her answers were so great I wanted to share them with you all as well! Enjoy!

Ramblings By Nicole Interview


1. As a new business just getting started, it's difficult to find easy, effective means of advertisement. What did you find worked the best for you in this area?

As a small company, chances are good that you have a small (ok, non-existent) marketing budget, so conventional forms of advertising, like television and print ads, are not an option. This means that you’ll have to get creative. As an online business, one of the best places to begin your search for publicity is the Internet, of course. If you don’t already have a social networking presence, get one. Start a Facebook page for your business, or begin Tweeting about your services. Video is also becoming extremely important these days, so why not have a friend shoot some footage of you working on a project, or explaining the concept behind your business? A simple video phone or webcam is all you need to get started; once you’ve loaded the videos to YouTube, it’s easy to integrate them into your blog. You can also search out forums and online communities that are relevant to your service and start interacting with users by providing links to blog posts or content from your webstore. There are also thousands of legitimate (and free) online directories out there; spend a few hours searching for directories that feature listings for similar business and post a link to your site. This will help drive more traffic to your webstore, and, with any luck, increase your sales.

2. As someone who offers scrap-for-hire services along with business and blog design, my clients are specific yet varied. How can I advertise effectively to my appropriate client bases?

Knowing your client base is half the battle when it comes to effective advertising. Are you absolutely sure that you know who you should be marketing too? If you are, try thinking like a potential client. Try and find web sites that deal specifically with scrapbooking and offer to write some content rich resources about the benefits of scrap-for-hire services in exchange for a hyperlink back to your store. Or why not try it the other way around and post some informative articles on your site, then invite these types of communities to link to your information?

Don’t forget to take your marketing efforts offline as well. If you have business cards, have your web site URL printed on them. Everything that comes out of your home office should all be tied together with your business name and logo. This includes e-mail messages; an e-mail signature with your company name, web site address and contact information can help drive more traffic to your site (and it’s easy for your contacts to forward onto someone else!). Design some flyers with your web site and contact information and then take them to your local craft or photography store. The manager might be willing to let you post them in the store window if you’re willing to provide a small shout-out to their services on your site.

3. Giveaways and reviews are a large part of the blogging world these days as the Word of Mouth movement is spreading. What are your opinions on this and how it can positively or negatively affect a company?

Like most things in business, it’s risky, but you can mitigate your risk. First, be certain of the product you send out to a blogger for review. Get some non-bloggers to test and provide feedback on it first. You don’t have to break the bank to do this either... do something like put a classified ad in the local paper and offer lunch for the first ten people to come to your office (or rent an office space for the occasion if you have a home office) and give you honest feedback about your product. Check out a few books on usability testing and focus groups for ways to do this.

If your product tests well and/or you’ve fixed any issues with it, then search for bloggers who are likely to be interested in it. Then ask their permission to send them something for review. If you’ve done your homework correctly, the result should be something positive.

4. If you had one piece of advice to give someone who wanted to become successful in running their own business, what would it be?

Think hard about what you would like to achieve in an ideal world. Then work backward from that to develop the plan to get there.

5. Was there ever a point you felt that it just wasn't worth the work and that you wanted to give up? If so, how did you push past that to succeed?

Oh, quite a few times! Running a business is like riding a roller coaster, sometimes. A good trick is to ask yourself, “in a year’s time, will I even remember what was stressing me so much today?” Chances are, the answer is no, and that puts it all in perspective again.

6. What do you like the most about running your own business?

I love having the ability to help people each and every day. Our services help students, academics, authors... in fact, virtually anyone can benefit from have their writing edited and proofed for errors! I think it’s extremely important to be passionate about what you do, because lets face it, if you don’t believe in and enjoy what you’re doing, your business won’t succeed.

7. What's one thing about running your business that you dislike that might surprise us?

Every company has its “public face” – one or maybe a few people that come to represent the company to the general public. In my company, that role falls to me, because I’m the president but it’s a role that doesn’t always sit comfortably with me. I’m fine with public speaking and so on, but I have to give credit where credit is due: I have an absolutely fabulous team behind me, and I wouldn’t be where I am today without them.

8. Do you feel that setting goals is important in maintaining a successful business? What are some goals that you've set and reached?

I think goal setting is extremely important when it comes to maintaining a successful business. When you set goals, you automatically begin to think of the steps that you need to take in order to get to where you want to be. Without goals, you’re simply floundering around trying to figure out what you should be doing.

One of the most recent big goals we've set and reached is to revamp and relaunch our web site - that happened this past August. Some smaller goals have to do with filling positions we have available on staff, ie., we wanted to create a role in HR and fill it by a certain time. It's important to note that goals should be as specific as possible. It's not enough to say, "I want to make a million dollars." Who doesn't? You have to say, "I want to make a million dollars in net revenue from widget sales." Being specific really helps you set your steps for getting there.

9. How did you manage to keep and thrive your business during the current economy?

We could see the situation brewing a few years ago and took steps to brace the company for the coming storm.

10. What is one thing you wish you'd done differently as you look back on your business history?

I wish I had had the time and manpower to go bigger sooner. I was very careful to play it safe when I started my business, which don’t get me wrong is important, but sometimes being too conservative can also harm your business and hinder your growth. Finding the happy medium between risk and security is what makes all the difference.